If you live with inattentive ADHD, you might have a complicated relationship with alcohol — maybe it’s been a way to unwind, fit in, or switch off from the constant noise of your own mind. You might even find yourself in cycles of binge drinking that you didn’t intend, leaving you wondering why it keepsContinueContinue reading “The hidden links between inattentive ADHD and binge drinking”
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Essentials of change: Why process beats pressure for ND people
Change is one of those things we all say we want—but somehow very few of us find it easy. Pressure to transform fast, to be the “better version” of ourselves overnight, can loom large. But meaningful, lasting change usually doesn’t happen through a button press. As psychotherapist Moya Sarner writes in The Guardian, we instinctivelyContinueContinue reading “Essentials of change: Why process beats pressure for ND people”
How to be kind to yourself when it feels like an alien concept
For many neurodivergent people, the idea of being kind to yourself can feel unfamiliar, even uncomfortable. You might know the words, but the practice itself may seem distant — as though kindness is something you extend to others but not to yourself. If this resonates, you are not alone. In this blog, we’ll explore whyContinueContinue reading “How to be kind to yourself when it feels like an alien concept”
Tapping for neurodivergent minds: A simple tool to calm a busy brain
Tapping is a gentle, practical way to calm a busy brain, and it can be especially helpful for neurodivergent minds. If you live with a neurodivergent brain — ADHD, autism, dyslexia, dyspraxia, or anything else that means your brain works a little differently — you’ll know how exhausting it can be when your nervous systemContinueContinue reading “Tapping for neurodivergent minds: A simple tool to calm a busy brain”
HALT triggers (hungry, angry, lonely, tired) survival kit: Neurodivergent edition
If you’ve ever felt like your emotions go from 0 to 100 without warning, or that small things tip you over the edge when you’re already holding so much, it might be time to get curious about HALT triggers. HALT stands for Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired – four states that can seriously impact your emotionalContinueContinue reading “HALT triggers (hungry, angry, lonely, tired) survival kit: Neurodivergent edition”
Drinking, people-pleasing, and perfectionism: A neurodivergent perspective
Drinking, people-pleasing, and perfectionism often intersect in the lives of neurodivergent individuals, creating a complex web of behaviours that can feel difficult to untangle. For many, these tendencies aren’t just habits or personality traits—they’re coping mechanisms that develop in response to societal pressures, past trauma, or internalised expectations. In this blog, I explore how theseContinueContinue reading “Drinking, people-pleasing, and perfectionism: A neurodivergent perspective”
Neurodivergence, alcohol, and self-medication: The need to knows
If you’re neurodivergent, chances are you’ve spent a lot of time trying to manage a world that often feels overwhelming, confusing, or just not built for you. The constant effort to navigate social expectations, sensory overload, executive dysfunction, and emotional intensity can be exhausting. And when traditional coping strategies don’t seem to fit, it’s noContinueContinue reading “Neurodivergence, alcohol, and self-medication: The need to knows”
Neurodivergent alcohol use support: Key insights you need to know
Changing drinking habits can be particularly challenging for neurodivergent individuals due to the complex ways in which alcohol interacts with sensory processing, emotional regulation, and coping mechanisms. Many neurodivergent people use alcohol as a tool to mask, manage rejection sensitivity, or regulate overwhelming emotions, often without realising the long-term impact on their well-being. Societal normsContinueContinue reading “Neurodivergent alcohol use support: Key insights you need to know”